Okay, sweet one, let’s talk about the grand lie of having a purpose.
Because hasn’t everyone, at some point, stared into their organic kale salad and wondered,
"WHY am I here?"
Really, isn't that THE question?
We’re all chasing that deeper something, the elusive unicorn of purpose, because, well, we think it equals happiness. Glitter cannons and rainbows!
Basically, aren’t we all just hunting for joy through our jobs, our love lives, and maybe that overpriced yoga retreat? Because let’s be honest, if those things led to misery, we’d be binge-watching Netflix instead. (Okay, some days we do both.)
So, how do you actually find this magical life purpose?
If you boil down every self-help book ever written (and I've read a LOT), two ideas bubble to the surface, like so much kombucha.
They create two distinct, shall we say, *vibes* about Life.
Vibe #1: Purpose is “Out There!”
This is the story we’re constantly sold, the narrative with all the bells and whistles. It’s the idea that purpose and happiness are about *doing* and *getting*.
What exactly are you supposed to be getting?
Well, according to the marketing gurus (who are probably sipping martinis on a yacht somewhere), it’s always - More! Better!
More experiences, more influence, a passive income stream that makes your eyes water, a better house with a walk-in closet for your shoes, a better job that feeds your soul AND pays the bills, better sex (because, duh), and for the truly enlightened, a better, more Instagrammable spirituality.
It’s always *better* than what you’ve got right now, darling.
But here’s the cosmic joke:
More and Better *never* actually deliver.
As that wise old grump Ecclesiastes put it:
"Meaningless!
Meaningless!
Everything is meaningless!
But…life is still amazing.” (Even he couldn’t help but throw in an "amazing" at the end!)
We all kinda know this, right? We feel it in our bones after every online shopping spree. Still, those clever ads keep whispering promises.
So, we jump back on the hamster wheel, convinced *this time* it’ll be different.
A new job!
A soulmate who understands our obsession with miniature dachshunds!
A truly transformative experience involving a llama!
The catch? It’s always a future promise.
"Once I _______, then I'll find purpose/happiness/meaning."
Once I quit my soul-crushing job, I’ll finally be happy.
Once I meet Mr./Ms. Right, then I’ll know what love REALLY is.
The future, my friend, is perpetually "tomorrow."
That's the lie behind Vibe #1.
The “hedonic treadmill” will leave you exhausted and feeling slightly used.
Vibe #2: Your Purpose and Happiness are *Here, Now*
Because Honey, *You ARE* the Purpose.
The mind really throws a tantrum at this one based on how we’ve been programmed to have a “PURPOSE.”
What if the truth is ridiculously simple: You *are* your purpose? You’re here to know and be your glorious, messy, authentic Self as you cast your VISION and allow the listening to answer your CALLING (more on this on my next series of purpose).
Seriously, pause for a moment and let that sink in.
You’re here to express your utterly unique, wonderfully weird, creative Self fully, freely, and fearlessly.
Everything else such as your creativity, your relationships, your questionable fashion choices – are just sparkling byproducts of you being *you*.
Knowing and being yourself?
That’s the answer to "What is my highest purpose and the source of my deepest freakin' joy?"
The hitch? We’ve forgotten who we are. From childhood, we get handed a cookie-cutter mold for the "Good Life" who to be, what to want, what success looks like.
So, we spend our lives trying to squish ourselves into that mold, developing a seriously messed-up case of mistaken identity.
Then BAM!
Quarter-life crises!
Mid-life meltdowns! (It's all very dramatic, really.)
So, how do you start?
Embrace the Disillusionment, Darling.
If you're feeling a little… blah about life, congratulations! You’re right where you need to be. Disillusionment is inevitable.
We no longer grasp to who we thought we were, and the one “purpose” we have in this life - and feeling that pressure!
Even if you achieve all the things, the shine wears off. (That’s just physics.)
Own it. There’s wisdom in that “blah” feeling.
The pain of disillusionment can unlock a whole new, glittery world of freedom and possibilities.
Why?
Disillusionment means shedding the illusions.
Seeing through the B.S. The cultural story that says purpose is “out there” is just a cleverly disguised sales pitch.
You’ve checked the boxes, achieved the goals.
But how long did it last? How long before you were chasing the next spiritual high?
Spiritual goals are fabulous, but notice how we're always trying to *escape* those uncomfortable feelings.
We launch projects, start cleanses, binge-watch cat videos. But eventually, we’re back to the same damn questions.
Wherever you go, there you are (and your existential baggage). So, you might as well embrace it.
Disillusionment is an invitation.
Like a pang of hunger, it’s your True Self nudging you toward the truth.
Look around. Mental illness is on the rise. Loneliness is an epidemic.
People are quietly quitting their lives.
Clearly, something’s gotta give.
The way we work, the way we live, the way we define "purpose"… it’s all crumbling.
That old story that purpose is “out there” keeps us stuck.
That’s the real question, isn’t it? Who are you?
Or, more accurately, *what* are you?
Time to reframe this, Darling.
What Is Your Vision and Soul Calling?
A Vision is the art of seeing life’s possibilities unfold—a profound and intuitive process that bridges the gap between your inner truth and the external world.
It invites you to see not only the road ahead but also the unseen opportunities that lie along your path.
Unlike conventional purpose driven vision, which often confines itself to specific, tangible goals, a calling embraces the unknown and empowers you to trust in the unfolding of your life’s purpose.
It is both a lens and a compass, helping you navigate toward your authentic self.
The roots of the word “vision” are steeped in ancient wisdom.
Derived from the Proto-Indo-European WEID, meaning “to see” or “to know,” the concept of vision transcends time and space.
It reminds you that seeing is not merely a physical act but a deeper knowing—a connection to clarity and purpose that originates from within.
THEREFORE.
The vision Creates the PATH.
Your Calling, is your Life’s pursuit of multiple variations as a creator - offering insight and guidance that arises organically from your inner self, rather than being dictated by external expectations.
Kassandra
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